My family a thugs call my man a loser , is he?

I have 2 b honest 2 get real answrs, my byfriend doesnt work, he takes care our 2kids while I work, he has worked b4 but had a mom who dnt send him 2 school so he is a drop out an now he doesnt realy speak wel n interviews an has vry low self esteem whn it comes to talkin to emplyers, all my family 2sistrs +5brthrs all cheatrs,players,strippers,women beatrs, so on, thy tell me becuz my man whom I been wit for 7 yrs, dont work he is a loser, but he has nver ever cheated, never beat on me or our 2lil grls which my 11yr old is by my ex, yet we have a 6yr old togther an he treats them the same beings my ex has nothin to do wit my lil 11yr old, he is super sweet but vry mis understood, our siblings on both sides have all cheated an beat on each othr, sum even left while a persn was prego an sum got othr women preganated "lol" while stil wit thier spouse, sum r known for women beating, can my man b a loser for havin 1 lil flaw? he is comfy b n sty home dad? thanx